There are many methods being taught and much advice given about how to get your ex back. Most of it is unproven and pretty much worthless, not to mentioning a lot of it can be more damaging than helpful. The reason is because there is no instruction manual that comes with relationships. We are supposed to figure things out on our own as we go.
Well there is a method that uses the power of human nature to make us irresistible to our ex and they will want us back if you learn how to use it. Let me explain.
There is not one single human being on earth that isn't wired to be selfish. Selfish in the fact that we ALL desire what we feel is the best for us as a person. It's called self interest. Self interest is what drives us to do most of the things that we do in life. Not all but must. For example, self interest motivates us to always be looking for ways to make more money because we feel a better income will give us things that we now can't obtain. So our own internal selfishness drives us to make more money because we feel that it would be in our own best interest. Understand?
Using this principle we can tap into it's power to get our ex back if done correctly. The key here is to cause our ex to feel that it would be in their own best interest to get us back. Let me give you an example.
Let's say that person "A" is distraught because person "B" broke up with them. Person "A" is an emotional wreck and decides to beg and plead with person "B" to get back together. Well my friend that approach has just the opposite affect. It will cause person "B" to see person "A" as needy and desperate and it is not attractive at all.
Now on the other hand if person "A" were to show strength and confidence to person "B" and say something like "I wish we hadn't broken up because I would really like to thank you in person for what you did for me", then person "B" would start to wonder what they are missing out on and their selfish, self interest would kick in. BOOM! They are immediately starting to feel attracted to person "A" which is the whole idea here right?
Now don't go out and try using this method because it is only a small part of a much larger plan that you need to learn. It's only a small example of what you can do with the power of human nature. Again I warn you. Don't try this method. Without the entire plan you could make things much worse for yourself. You need the whole plan in order for it to work.
Well there you have it. A brief explanation of how to use the power of human nature to get your ex back. Good Luck!
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